We hear the word broken and typically the first thing that comes to mind is – “How are we gonna fix it?” or “How are we going to replace it?”
We have broken cars, washers, refrigerators, lawn mowers, plumbing, bones, lives, families, hearts, dreams and homes.
What is the actual definition of broken? Is it something so far gone that it cannot be fixed? It is something meant to be left broken or is it meant to be fixed?
According to Oxford Dictionary Broken is:
- having been fractured or damaged and no longer in one piece or in working order:
synonyms: smashed · shattered · fragmented · splintered · crushed
- (a person) having given up all hope; despairing:synonyms: defeated · beaten · subdued · demoralized · dispirited
So broken is something damaged. It can be something that isn’t whole (one piece), It can be shattered, crushed, smashed or splintered. It can be something that no longer works. It can even be someone who has given up.
Recently my husband and I both have broken bones. I broke my toe and he broke his finger. I was angry when I broke my toe. I was so angry. It was an accident. Accidents happen but I didn’t want something like that to happen to me. I have too many things to do and I couldn’t walk as fast and could barely walk at all. I thought how could something so small cause me so many problems? My husband went roughly through the same thing. He couldn’t put his boots on or take them off. He found himself frustrated that he wasn’t physically able to do something. Both of us have had a lot of physical pain associated with these breaks.
I found myself really behind on my housework, laundry, dishes and everything else. My house was a mess and still kind of is. All of that got me thinking about how our bodies work. My toe is a small member of my body but when it is broken, my entire body and life suffers. The same goes with the body of Christ. When a member is broken, no matter how small, it is noticeable and until there is healing the whole body will suffer.
When a person is broken that doesn’t mean we need to fix them or that they are no longer worth saving. Jesus came to save the world and provide healing to those who are broken. God tells us so in His word. Isiah 53:5 “He was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.”
When we are broken we need rest. We need God to pick up the pieces and make them whole again. Our church had a revival a few weeks ago. I was only able to make it to one night. The night I went, the preacher preached about being broken by things we allow into our lives and by circumstances. He had a flower pot and spun it around in his hands and threw it up and caught it. He said we allow more and more things into lives and we let our vessel get loose. The next thing you know your vessel ends up so loose that it falls from your hands and breaks. He threw the pot behind him and it broke into many pieces. He said you can try and try to pick up the pieces but you can’t. He also said you can’t be used when you are a broken vessel. God won’t use a broken vessel. (One reason when members of the body of Christ are broken the whole body suffers)
The only way to get whole again is to get down on your knees and ask God to heal you and forgive you and to help you. He got down on his knees as he said this. He said God will pick up your pieces and he will put you back together again. He held up a new pot for us all to see what God can do with our lives and vessels.
At the time I was struggling with many things and I felt so convicted over his message. I had been broken for a long time and had not gone to God for my healing. The preacher went on to say that we could have broken marriages, lives, vessels, witnesses, homes whatever and that God would heal it. I felt so overwhelmed with the Holy Spirit telling me to go to the alter and ask for forgiveness and healing. I am glad that I did because I walked away feeling whole again. I walked away with hope and with a renewed heart and soul.
Sometimes we have to be broken to be made whole. God can make you whole. He can restore you and revive you. He will pick up your pieces and put you back together. It may be painful. The healing may be a process like the healing of a broken bone, but don’t give up!!! Keep praying, keep reading, keep trusting and keep the faith!
Whatever is broken in your life whether it be; your marriage, your heart, your life, your mind, your spirit, your witness, your finances, your body – come to Jesus and ask for a healing. If you’ve let sin slip into your life, come to Jesus. He will give you healing and forgiveness.
I always feel awkward writing a prayer but I need to do what is on my heart.
I ask that you speak to the hearts of those who read this. I ask that you would provide healing in whatever aspect of life that it is needed. I ask you to give them a renewal of their hearts, souls and minds. I thank you for what you’ve done and what you will do. I ask that you flood each person’s life who reads this with your love. God we know you are exceeding and able to do all things and we know that you will. I ask that if someone is reading this and they used to be on fire for you that you would stir up their hearts and start a fire in them again. I ask you to give peace and comfort and joy to those who are without it. Lord we ask that if there is someone reading this who doesn’t know you, that they will come to know you. Use us Lord and let us be your vessels. I ask all these things in your name, Amen.
My hope for you is that you will come to the well that never goes dry and that you will get what you need.
Love from above,
2 thoughts on “Broken </3”
Iva Mae, your prayer was for me! (And surely for many others) I have been broken for more than two years (broken body but also in other ways) and what you prayed is now happening to me! God is showing me His love, and healing me spiritually and emotionally, and doing this in ways I never ever expected. And He has also promised to heal me physically. Thank you for your prayer!
I only came across your blog today but also read your post on worshiping while grieving, and my heart goes out to you. I will pray for you! And I pray that you have already had healing from Him.
– Who also has wanted, so bad, to be like David (I really related to your earlier post when you said that!)
Hi Iva Mae, this actually isn’t for public comment, it’s just to you. (I looked to see if I could find your contact info or your profile on Facebook but couldn’t)
I’ve been praying about you as I said 🙂
I wanted to see if I could send you a book that I hope will help heal your heart / soul. It has a part about children in heaven and was written by a Canadian airline pilot who experienced a near death experience – he was the one who saw the children there – with some chapters written by a pastor. I would also love to be able to tell you about a young woman I know who had also had near death experiences during a severe illness when she was a girl – or I could put you in touch with her and she could tell you herself (she talked with me and openly answered all my questions about her experience) – she met a sister there that she didn’t know she had, a baby her mother had miscarried. This sister was alive and complete and well in heaven.
I don’t know if you can see my email address through WordPress or not, but it’s tiffanyjonassc at gmail.
I hope you don’t mind me writing this to you!